Hi everyone today I am doing a blog swap with Pauline at Reach Financial Independence. So if you like what you read, please head over to her website and check it out. You can also access my post on her site about Preparing Financially for a Baby
The following is a guest post from Pauline Paquin, a French girl who has recently started to blog over at Reach Financial Independence. Born and raised in Paris, Pauline blogs about how she has been traveling the world for the past 10 years, while trying to build wealth and achieve financial independence, and how you can follow your dreams and reach your goals too. You can follow Pauline on Twitter @RFIndependence.
Glen says in this article how we can and need to be saving money. While I couldn’t agree more, I think there are situations where you shouldn’t be pinching pennies, and should instead start spending your money. I suffer from great frugality disorder myself, but I am reforming one step at a time and those expenses are definitely worth it in my opinion.
Yourself
You are your best asset. So you should take care of yourself by doing the following:
- Eat healthy
- Exercise
- Buy good shoes to protect your feet
- Brush your teeth
- Remember to floss
- Avoid smoking
- Limit your drinking
- Have regular medical check ups
Not taking care of yourself can lead to chronic conditions and also impact your earning potential. If you are unable to go to work, or have a condition that prevents you from doing your job well, you can miss out on thousands of dollars.
Educating yourself is also a sound investment. If you think that taking a night class or going back to college will get you a promotion at work, or just make you feel like a better happier individual, then by all means go for it.
Your home
Keeping your home cosy and well run is important to value yourself as a person, because you deserve it, and also because you spend so much time at home. You do not need to have the latest sofa and change it every year. But it is maybe time to get rid of your college furniture if you are in your thirties? I have never regretted spending money on making my home nicer. A fresh coat of paint, matched cutlery and a few items from your backpacking days can go a long way to give your house a unique personal feel.
Your bed
The quality of your sleep will affect your relations with people, your well-being, and how your day will go. Get a good mattress and change it regularly. Get nice sheets that make you happy when you go to bed. You spend one third of your life in bed, so you should spend a little more on making it a comfortable place. While you are at it, go for a queen or king size bed. Studies show that humans are not made to sleep with company, and a narrow bed can lead to conjugal problems (for the Francophiles out there, here is a link to the study). Your relationship or marriage is worth the upgrade.
Your car
I am not telling you to go get the last shiny car for sale. Just to keep a maintenance schedule and not postpone it. Forgoing an oil change for too long will damage your motor and affect your gas mileage. Failing to change your tires on time can lead to an accident. A well-kept car will last longer and cost less money in the long run.
Your daily items
I cook every day and you probably do too. If you don’t, refer to #1, and drop the junk food. If you do, invest in a good knife, non adhesive pots and pans and a good chopping board. Why should you spend 10 minutes more doing the dishes every night just because the pans are sticky? One hour per week or half a day per month lost for not getting a new pan? I value my time much more than this.
If you use something every day, consider getting the best version of it that you can afford. Personal items that I don’t have a problem splurging on include my laptop, kitchenware, towels, linen, and clothes.
I would rather buy a few items of clothing that are more expensive, classic items that will last for a few years, than cheap trendy clothes that I won’t wear the next season. I also bought a pretty expensive motorcycle last summer to tour Europe, that brought me no trouble over 20000 miles.
Experiences
Going out with your spouse on a special date or taking your kids to a theme park are things that you will remember for a long time. Do your kids remember what presents they got last Christmas? I don’t remember many presents from my childhood, but those memories are still there. You do not have to spend money, a picnic in the park can make for a romantic date, but if you spend on experiences, it is likely going to be money well spent.
What else do you think it is worth to spend money on?


I agree with all of these! Money SHOULD be spent at some point. Money in the bank is a great buffer against unexpected costs or for future purchases, but there are things that it should be spent on without regrets.
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Like… a dog? Did you get it?
Totally agree with you on the point on buying decent pots… The amount of time our le creuset pans have saved us have paid for them in itself!

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They are on my dream kitchen shopping list once I stop bleeding money fixing the house

My bag was too heavy to bring the couple I had back in Europe!
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I agree with all of these! I think we are on the save wavelength or something. It is so imporant to us to spend money only on what we value- our home, education, healthy food, healthy activities, and all of the experiences that make life amazing.
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It makes life worth it to treat yourself wisely once in a while!
I really love this post, because it is very important to remember. Money should be saved and invested, but it should also be spent. I really enjoyed your last point of using money on ‘experiences’. I remember my childhood and how my parents spent a good part of their money on ‘experiences’ for my sister and I. We didn’t have a lot of money, but we enjoyed a lot of experiences as a family. It was great and I wouldn’t change it for the world.
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Thank you Jason. It is true that experiences are priceless. When we were teens my grandparents stopped giving us presents and would take all the cousins out for a fun day and dinner. It is one of my best memories.
Spend money on a bed?!?! Crazy talk.
Couldn’t agree more. There isn’t any point amassing huge amount of money to simply sit unused, and like DC said, it should be spent on something eventually. A good bed is a great investment – I’m hopeless without a good nights rest.
I also advocate spending huge amount of of money on alcohol.

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I like my drinks too! I tend to buy good bottles to drink at home now, which is much cheaper than drinking crap at a bar. An no need for a designated driver. I would file it under experiences as it is generally a way for me to treat close friends to a good dinner and drinks. Never looked at wine as an investment but it is apparently a sound one.
I totally agree with spending money on yourself in terms of your health. This is one area where I suspend frugality a little, and not just in terms of the doctor. I recently got a deep-tissue massage – my first ever – and man the stress-reducing benefits were so worth it!
BTW: I like the F650, Pauline – nice!
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It is nice isn’t it?
You are right to treat yourself once in a while. It is a way to boost self esteem, that should boost confidence at work, and with friends and family. You can reap many rewards, like a promotion, with the right amount of confidence. Totally worth it.
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Restoring history is something that we’re also glad to spend money on. We recently brought back to life an heirloom piece that had faded… it cost $500 to do so, but it is a big deal to us and we were glad to do so.
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Anything of sentimental value is worth the expense. Even though it makes no financial sense, it is nice to have old items from your family and things that you simply like and want to keep in working order.
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Love this post Pauline! I totally agree about every item you’ve listed!! I just got a BEAUTIFUL set of Henckel knives for my birthday. The chefs knife cuts through bone like butter, I’ve never been so excited to cut things before! As for pots and pans…I also agree and have a nice collection of them but they don’t match at all. I own near top of the line post but have purchased them individually at various store sales/been given them as gifts. I don’t hang my pots on display so why would I care if they match? I love them all individually!
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Glad you liked the post Catherine! You’re right, who cares about matching pots. As long as they do the job well. Getting second hand is a great idea. And those knives sound amazing too!
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Good post Pauline! I agree on all of the points. Like has been stated already, saving as much as you can will only get you so far. Life is about having experiences and enjoying that to the fullest. We can get caught up in trying to be frugal and miss out on caring for ourselves or just not enjoying life.
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There is a fine line obviously, but we deserve a treat every now and then!
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Such simple things, but very important! I always argue that spending money on your health, education, and well-being is the greatest thing you can do with your cash. Without those things, you have nothing!
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It is simple indeed! I hope most people have figured that out.
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I completely agree with you Pauline. If you don’t spend money on yourself, then what is the point. Spending money on yourself can make you feel better, act better, and even have more discipline. If I don’t spend some money on myself every once in a while, then I start feeling a little out of it. It helps me get back into it and back on track.
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I thought a reminder for us PF bloggers was good, as many people treat spending money as a bad thing. I am all about saving, but know some people in their 60s-80s who don’t spend a penny and are sitting on a pile of gold, I feel sorry for them for not enjoying life.
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Ah, I’m so guilty of not changing my mattress out. It’s just so darn expensive! Some days I do wake up with a lot of pain in the back and have a feeling its all because of the old mattress. You’ve given me more to think about now
Thanks Pauline.
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I hope you can change it soon! It is the kind of thing one would postpone for months but if that back pain keeps going you can be looking at hundreds in chiropractic work. Not worth it.
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Great post! I agree with all of those things. I also think when you invest in yourself, you may have to invest a little in exercise. Yes there are free ways to do this, but sometime there may be things you need to purchase. Also investing in not looking like a slob. You are your best advertisement, and you could potentially be meeting your next boss or client at a dinner party, so if you can, invest in a haircut, or make sure your brows are waxed, or have a little makeup on. A little goes a long way. Also, when I feel “prettier” I gain more confidence, and that is priceless.

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If you exercise a lot you should have proper gear. Good shoes for runners and the like. And I am pretty sure confident people make more money, so giving yourself the confidence by cleaning up nicely is totally worth it.
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Excellent post Pauline! My mother always taught me to buy high quality stuff that lasts forever. It’s funny because I look around at stuff I have bought over the many years and some things we have gotten such good use out of and other things were a bad idea and they just sit there. For example we bought a small convection breadmaker and we were just saying today how we literally use it twice a week. It was a great buy.
And we recently qualified to exchange our 8 year old king bed for a brand new one, at no cost to us. We feel so much better with the new mattress.
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Thank you Sicorra! Your mum was wise, it is incredible how long can good items last. Some even have a lifetime guarantee since the company is so sure that they are sturdy. The bed deal sounds awesome too!
Very good points. I especially agree that we need to spend on experiences. There are so many amazing places to see. They don’t all have to be expensive either, like National Parks. I also have to have nicer towels. I hate thin little towels.
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Nothing like big, fluffy towels! It is a whole taking-care-of-yourself package, we all deserve the best!
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I agree that humans were not meant to sleep in close quarters. We have a queen sized bed and that is still not big enough for me. There is a running joke in our house that I call sleep, “a one person event.” She never lets me live that one down.
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I like that! Often it can feel that way around here too, or so my wife would tell you. Apparently I can snore a bit – I’ve never heard it, so I’ll have to take her word on it.
I snore when I sleep on my back. Luckily for my wife I am a side sleeper. When my wife snores I just record her on my phone and play it back for her.
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I tend to snore after I have had a few to drink. I’m not sure I would like being recorded and I certainly wouldn’t record my wife for fear of reprisal.
I am patiently waiting to upgrade my bed to queen or king
there was a bed left by the previous owner that we are using for now. Definitely too small. Stupid movies selling us loving couples sleeping in each other’s arm…
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You should try sleeping in an itty-bitty bed with two adults and one little munchkin all crammed in together. Ugh. A luxurious king-size is next on our shopping list. I am starting to hobble around, which is absolutely ridiculous. I’m too young to be this achy!
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That sounds terrible! I’m 6’4 so I couldn’t handle anything smaller than a king, I really need my space.
I hope Santa is kind to you this Christmas and brings you a comfy new bed
ouch, I feel your pain Jen. I found a free bed on freecycle once that was in pretty good condition. All I had to get was a van to transport it. Craigslist is cheap too, and you can have the mattress sprayed for bugs before you put it in your house.
I love how balanced this list is. You are right, we are our biggest asset. My hubby and I try quite hard to look after ourselves. We do everything on your list. The thing we are working to improve lately is our sleep. We need to get more than we have been.
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Glad you liked it! I believe you are doing the world a favor by taking care of yourself. By being relaxed and happy, you will be more open to others. By being well groomed and healthy you will not be a burden because you are sick or can’t work. And you will be able to help others.
Having sometime type of balance in life it key. Whats the point of working if you don’t have a goal or reason to why you are working. Saving just to save? Find things of value to you. The problem is what one person values another may not. I agree that we are our own biggest asset and need to take care of ourselves. I would put bed under taking care of yourself and getting better sleep.
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Values are different for everyone, but taking care of yourself should be a priority for all. Like an athlete, we should be able to see what conditions make us perform best. Did we have a big breakfast? How many hours of sleep? Did we exercise? And fine tune ourselves to be the best we can.
Pauline recently posted..Little house in Guatemala, week 3
We’re trying to work more experiences ie traveling, shows, entertainment into our budget. You only live once, so doing things you’ll remember is really important to us. This year our splurge was flying my grandparents here for Christmas. We’re going to go to the Rockettes and a Broadway show since my grandparents have never been to NYC (or seen our new condo). We’re so excited and they are too.
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What a beautiful present for your grandparents! Sharing time with loved ones is one of the best things money can bring you.
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I couldn’t agree with you more about spending money on a bed. I had a friend who sold us a Tempurpedic that was barely touched because it was in his guest bedroom. Although it cost more than the typical bed, we were able to buy it for a fraction of the retail price. It is one of the best purchases we have ever made! We spend almost 1/3 of our lives sleeping, so why not make sure we sleep well

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You definitely need a quality mattress, I struggle enough with trying to get to sleep without having a crappy mattress to make matters worse.
These are fine points to consider. People should spend for their health and homes but not much for their cars. Daily items are as important as well. readers can get good tips from this post.
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It is important to look after yourself, thanks for stopping by